{"id":3337,"date":"2024-03-17T20:21:53","date_gmt":"2024-03-18T01:21:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/?p=3337"},"modified":"2025-01-01T17:46:39","modified_gmt":"2025-01-01T22:46:39","slug":"7l-the-seven-levels-of-communication-go-from-relationships-to-referrals-by-michael-j-maher","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/?p=3337","title":{"rendered":"7L: THE SEVEN LEVELS OF COMMUNICATION: GO FROM RELATIONSHIPS TO REFERRALS BY MICHAEL J. MAHER"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Not All Types Of Communication Are Equal<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-3338\" src=\"http:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-7-levels-of-communication-book-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-7-levels-of-communication-book-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-7-levels-of-communication-book-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-7-levels-of-communication-book-96x96.jpg 96w, https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-7-levels-of-communication-book-24x24.jpg 24w, https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-7-levels-of-communication-book-36x36.jpg 36w, https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-7-levels-of-communication-book-48x48.jpg 48w, https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-7-levels-of-communication-book-64x64.jpg 64w, https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-7-levels-of-communication-book.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The Seven Levels Of Communication is a good book that reads easily. The man behind it is an American realtor who reports success in his own business after having employed the techniques\/system he teaches in the book. Not coincidentally, the story is narrated by a realtor who interacts with professionals who provide ancillary services like legal advice or mortgages. It is a \u201cstory\u201d because, unlike most sales books, 7L lays out its system in a novel-like format complete with a romantic subplot.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Salespeople of all stripes can benefit from the methodology that emphasises giving, sharing and serving, but reading it one soon realises that it is best suited to those who run an independent business &#8211;\u00a0 as opposed to inside or field salespeople working in a cubicle for someone else. Still, it is a useful read and lays out an agenda for growth. By the way, that was the other distinction between this and other books. The emphasis here is on sharing and giving. In practice, that means 7L is great for longer-term thinking and not quite apt for relieving quarterly quota pressures.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Do X, Y and Z and the sales take care of themselves. The gist of those \u201cX, Y and Z\u201d is to give, be helpful, coach and expect business benefits to boomerang. Forget the advertising and the \u2018selling.\u2019 Really, that is the essence of what the book preaches. The system includes multiple steps of seven: spiritual (my word) affirmations (\u201csomeone needs me\u201d), the necessity of consistency (like a \u201critual\u201d), which the book calls \u201cdeliberate investment of time\u201d and goals i.e., being ambitious.<\/p>\n<p>The 7 Levels Of Communication (in order of effectiveness) are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>1 On 1 meetings<\/li>\n<li>Events And Seminars<\/li>\n<li>Phone Calls<\/li>\n<li>Handwritten Notes<\/li>\n<li>Electronic Communication<\/li>\n<li>Direct Mail<\/li>\n<li>Advertising<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3339 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-levels-of-communication.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"523\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-levels-of-communication.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.alighaemi.com\/wp\/wp-content\/uploads\/7l-levels-of-communication-300x204.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Elsewhere, the book offers the 7 Steps To A Power Note (don\u2019t forget to use a blue pen, use \u2018you\u2019 instead of \u2018I\u2019 and have a P.S.- page 50), How to tell a Successful Success Story (page 66) and the four behavioural styles &#8211; DiSC or Dominant (get to the point immediately), Influence (love socialising and crave fun and energy), Steadiness (slow, steady and systematic) and Compliance (perfectionists who crave order, detail and crispness) &#8211; to use them in order to interact with people accordingly. Maher has a twist on the old wisdom of treating people the way you want them to treat you. His advice is to treat them the way they want to be treated, according to their personality, not the way you want to be treated. Finally, there is a script for asking for referrals (page 96), which substitutes the direct question with the more indirect, \u201cWho would you recommend for \u2026?\u201d Whoever they recommend, the follow-up question is to be curious, positive, find out why and ask what it would take for you to become their go-to recommended professional.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>In addition to these, the book introduces the concepts of The Ego Era, Generosity Generation and L.I.F.E. That last one stands for Learn, Implement, Fail and Evaluate, but no need to worry. The book includes a glossary at its end.<\/p>\n<p>After car salespeople and lawyers, realtors probably have the third worst reputation out there. It says something about the book, and what it teaches, if the author has succeeded in his business, become rich and has done it through referrals and popularity.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not All Types Of Communication Are Equal The Seven Levels Of Communication is a good book that reads easily. The man behind it is an American realtor who reports success in his own business after having employed the techniques\/system he teaches in the book. 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